Posted by: Tara | May 14, 2008

Good job Dave!

Special delivery for North Bellport mom

BY JOHN VALENTI

john.valenti@newsday.com

7:46 AM EDT, May 14, 2008

The miracle of childbirth came a little earlier than expected for Shakira Carraco early Wednesday when she gave birth to a daughter in her North Bellport home with the help of a Suffolk County police officer and two emergency medical technicians.

Officer David Henderson got a radio call at 2:47 a.m., informing him of “a female in active maternity.” He arrived moments later at 621 Bellport Ave. to find that Carraco, 19, was not going to make it to a hospital, police said, She was about to deliver her baby.

He got a sterile blanket from his cruiser and placed it under Carraco before the two volunteers from South Country Ambulance arrived.

Police said the two volunteers — Mike Pyzkiewicz and Michelle Benincase — delivered a healthy baby girl with Henderson’s assistance.

The girl was born at exactly 3 a.m. — and the mother and daughter were then transported to Brookhaven Memorial Hospital in East Patchogue. Police said the name of the baby girl is so far unknown.

Posted by: Tara | May 13, 2008

Happening?

Not sure if I mentioned this on the blog, I’m pretty sure that I wanted to keep it to myself till I knew for sure.  I little while ago I contacted the French Embassy in New York City to inquire if I would be eligible to obtain French Citizenship.  You see, my paternal Grandmother was born and raised in France.  I actually still do have family that resides in France.  Well, I had been going back and forth with a representative from the Embassy via email.  She had requested that I obtain copies of various documents (ie: birth cetirficiates, other legal documents….), which I did, and recently sent them to her.  Well, today, I got the call I wanted: she called me to confirm that I meet all the requirements to obtain citizenship through decent and will be mailing me some paperwork to fill out to make this thing official.  I’m super excited right now.

Oh, and to make this day even more interesting, I called my father’s sister to tell her the news (she had been helping me get copies of the documents that I needed) and she told me that her cousin Veronique’s son is coming to stay with her for the whole month of July.  Veronique is her cousin from France and she just started recently talking to her via the internet.  Man, the internet is a wealth of information!

So yeah, that’s my big news.  Interesting, right?

Posted by: Tara | May 8, 2008

Not again…

I’m sick again.  At least I know I’m getting sick.  My throat hurts, my head hurts, I’m sneezing and starting to cough.  This sucks big time.  It’s May for crying out loud!  I already did the ‘deathly ill’ thing back in March, this is so not fair!  I don’t want to be sick again!!!  I want to make a doctor’s appt, but I know my doctor won’t have any available appointments for tomorrow (she’s ALWAYS booked, no exaggeration).  I can call and try, but I know it won’t work out, which makes me sad.  And I also know there isn’t much that can be done, just some antibiotics if anything.  Ugh, so unfair.

Posted by: Tara | May 3, 2008

Another contraction??

Nearly two months ago I experienced something that can only be described as a contraction.  This morning I felt that again.  It was around 7am, I had only been in my bed for about 2 hours (had gone out to watch a movie with a friend… didn’t get back till late).  I woke up because I was having back pain, so I rolled over, and that’s when it stated again…  The pain started to wrap around my back to my stomach, my stomach became distended and I was nearly paralyzed by the pain.  It also didn’t help that I was absolutely exhausted and half awake during this whole ordeal.   I don’t know how long the pain lasted.  I needed to get all pressure off my stomach so I wiggled off my jogging pants and slept in my underwear (great mental image, right? haha).  The pain eventually went away, but this is freaking me out.  Thank God my medical insurance has kicked in, I’ll have to make an appointment like asap.  Why in the world is this happening?  It’s freaking me out big time.

Posted by: Tara | May 1, 2008

I am greatly amused by this

500-pound defendant has court date in parking lot

BY LUIS PEREZ

luis.perez@newsday.com

10:11 PM EDT, May 1, 2008

It was a beautiful day for drive-through justice Thursday at the Suffolk County courthouse.

Under a cloudless sky, the court stenographer sat in a padded office chair. The defendant, Bernard Musumeci, 44, sat in the passenger seat of his gray Ford F-350 truck, the window down. And the judge, wearing no jacket over his black robe, marked the 11 a.m. court appearance amid a backdrop of pine trees.

“The record should reflect that this arraignment is taking place in the parking lot of the courthouse,” said state Supreme Court Justice Robert W. Doyle, adding, “because of the severe weight problem this defendant has.”

Although the arraignment was outdoors, Doyle prevented Newsday from photographing it.

In what legal observers in Suffolk say is quite possibly a first, Musumeci, who stands 6-foot-1 and weighs about 500 pounds, was arraigned in the employee parking lot after his attorney told Doyle it was impossible for his client to walk into the building and ride the elevator up to Doyle’s third-floor courtroom.

Musumeci, of Centereach, pleaded not guilty. He turned himself in to the Suffolk County district attorney’s office last fall after a two-month investigation. Prosecutors said he was selling knockoff Gibson Les Paul guitars through Oakdale Music, his Montauk Highway shop, and on eBay. Police said they confiscated 35 guitars at Musumeci’s shop and home that, on close inspection, bore tiny, internal markings indicating they were made in China. The authentic versions of the guitars would have fetched $90,000, authorities said.

Musumeci sold dozens of the instruments for as little as $1,500 to musicians who thought they were the originals worth thousands more. He was charged with defrauding Nashville-based Gibson Guitar Corp., prosecutors said.

Musumeci faces charges of second-degree trademark counterfeiting and criminal simulation, both felonies. If convicted, he faces 11/3 to 4 years in prison on each count. He was released with no bail after the 10-minute proceeding.

In asking for the special circumstances, attorney John Fath of Patchogue gave the court a letter from Musumeci’s doctor explaining he suffers from osteoarthritis, a degenerative joint disease.

Musumeci’s new attorney, Victor Velazquez of Riverhead, said that in 31 years in the courts this was his first parking-lot arraignment.

Doyle told Musumeci he would need to show further proof of his inability to enter the courtroom at his next appearance in June.

As birds chirped in the distance, Doyle added: “Obviously, we can’t hold a trial in a parking lot.”

Posted by: Tara | May 1, 2008

Doctor, here I come!

I finally got my medical insurance today!!  Woo Hoo!!!  So happy, hell, I may go to the hospital just because I now can!

Ok, so that was totally dramatised, I won’t go to the hospital unless I actually have to, which I really hope doesn’t happen.

Posted by: Tara | April 27, 2008

Good job Long Island!

Nassau, Suffolk lawsuit restores HIV/AIDS funds

BY JENNIFER MALONEY

jennifer.maloney@newsday.com

Nassau and Suffolk counties have won a lawsuit against the United States Department of Health and Human Services to regain more than $1 million in cut funding for HIV/AIDS services.

The case, decided Friday in the U.S. Second Circuit Court of Appeals, overturned an order of the U.S. District Court, which had agreed with the federal government that Long Island no longer qualified for the annual amount of HIV/AIDS funding it has received since 1990, according to court records.

The ruling comes in response to an injunction requested by the counties to delay the decision of the District Court.

In 2006, Long Island received $6.1 million, but in 2007, after the passage of the Ryan White HIV/AIDS Treatment Modernization Act of 2006, Nassau and Suffolk counties were reclassified from an “eligible metropolitan area” to a category that qualified for less money.

The size of the potential loss was unclear but AIDS advocates last year said it could be between $1.5 million and $1.7 million for both counties together.

Robert Nardoza, a spokesman for the U.S. attorney’s office.Jennifer Kim, a spokeswoman for Nassau County Executive Thomas Suozzi, said, “We’re very pleased with the outcome and we’ll know in the near future how much aid we’ll be getting.”

Suozzi is expected to announce the victory at a news conference today.

The Ryan White Act was created in 1990 to provide emergency relief funding to localities that were disproportionately affected by the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Congress passed an amendment in 1996 that protected the future funding of all regions that met the definition of “eligible metropolitan areas” that year, including Long Island.

Although Long Island has not had enough new HIV/AIDS cases over the past five years to meet the definition of “eligible metropolitan area,” that grandfathered clause allowed Nassau and Suffolk to retain their level of funding, federal appeals court Judge John M. Walker Jr. wrote in his opinion.

Long Island had 1,505 new cases over the past five years. Generally, “eligible metropolitan areas” have more than 2,000 cases.

Joining Nassau and Suffolk in the suit were several agencies that receive funding through the counties, including Long Island Minority AIDS Coalition; Federation Employment and Guidance Service, a nonprofit organization focused on health and human services; and Thursday’s Child, an HIV/AIDS support and advocacy group.

Posted by: Tara | April 24, 2008

MONEY!!!

It’s about time!  After 2 months my direct deposit has FINALLY gone through.  Sooooo happy!!!!  Yea for getting paid at 1:29am!!! =)

Posted by: Tara | April 24, 2008

Yeah, I’d be in shock too…..

Tankleff says he was in ‘deep shock’ after killings

BY ALFONSO A. CASTILLO

alfonso.castillo@newsday.com

9:58 PM EDT, April 23, 2008

There is a wide-eyed quality about Martin Tankleff in every step that he takes as a free man after 17 years in prison. He prefers walking over taking cabs and marvels at how his iPod Nano can hold more than a thousand songs. But try as he might, he cannot escape the events of Sept. 7, 1988.

“I was in a crosswalk a few weeks ago in the city. Some guy says, ‘Can I ask you a question?’ I says, ‘What’s up?’ He says, ‘Are you that innocent guy who just got out of jail?” Tankleff, now 36, recalled. “I said, ‘Yeah.’”

As much as Tankleff tries to assume a new life as a college student, cousin and uncle, he will forever be identified as the Belle Terre teen accused of brutally beating and slashing his parents, Arlene and Seymour, to death two decades ago.

In his first interview since having his conviction overturned and being released on bail, Tankleff — who is still under indictment — recalled the “deep shock and disbelief” he felt as his life began to unravel that dawn.

“[It was] like, ‘This can’t be happening. This must be a nightmare,’” Tankleff said, speaking from the Westbury home of his aunt, Marcella Falbee, just a few houses down from his cousin Ron Falbee’s home, where Tankleff lives. “Nobody in your wildest imagination could think that life could be that bad in that moment.”

The “nightmare” was compounded when police quickly zeroed in on Tankleff, then 17, as a suspect and interrogated him. He gave police a confession, after the lead detective tricked him, telling him his father had awoke from a coma and identified his son as his attacker.

“Had there been an electronic recording of what happened in that interrogation room, I wouldn’t have served 17 years, and we all would know what really happened in there,” said Tankleff, who plans to study law and one day defend the wrongfully convicted.

Suffolk District Attorney Thomas Spota has said it is not practical to re-try Tankleff but has stopped short of saying Tankleff is innocent. Before he could drop the charges, Attorney General Andrew Cuomo intervened and is reviewing the case.

In looking back, Tankleff disputed the notion that it may have been his own lack of emotion, both at the crime scene and on the witness stand, that convicted him. He pointed to evidence, including his frantic 911 call and testimony by a neighbor who said Tankleff ran from his house screaming “Murder! Murder!” that morning.

Tankleff said his feelings of shock left little room for grief.

“You couldn’t fathom that this was actually real. You just couldn’t imagine that it was actually happening,” Tankleff said. “It’s hard to become emotionally sad if you don’t believe it’s actually true.”

Tankleff was convicted in 1990 and sentenced to 50 years to life in prison. He said jurors “got it wrong” by not focusing on the evidence in the case and his father’s business partner, Jerry Steuerman. Tankleff’s attorneys have claimed Steuerman recruited his parents’ killers, Joseph Creedon and Peter Kent. The three men have denied any involvement and have not been charged.

“It’s frustrating knowing that the criminal justice system doesn’t function. … They’re still out there, doing God knows what. And I’m still indicted. Something’s wrong with that picture,” he said.

Tankleff said he avoided trouble in prison so he could continue his job in the law library, where he researched his case.

“I’d fall asleep with law journals on top of me and books on top of me,” Tankleff said. “Guys used to always laugh that I would spend all my free time, instead of doing something fun, working on my case.”

On birthdays, he would get together with inmates with similar birthdays, and cook and eat together. He absorbed every crumb of the outside world by watching television news magazines and documentaries, until last December when he got the call from his attorney, Bruce Barket. “By the time I started walking back to the cellblock, the jail knew,” he said. “And [I heard] ‘Congratulations’ every step of the way.”

Almost immediately after being released on bail, Tankleff tried to reclaim some normalcy in his life. He registered at Hofstra University, where he is studying sociology and philosophy and hopes to graduate with a bachelor’s degree by the spring of 2009. He has already earned an associate’s degree in prison.

When he is not in school, Tankleff can most often be found in Barket’s Garden City law office — writing a college paper on diversity in the criminal justice system, joking with the office support staff in passable Spanish and working on his case.

He has gone by his high school, but has mostly steered clear of his old neighborhood. “No offense, but until the case is over, I’ll stay away from Suffolk, unless I have to go out there,” he said.

Still looming over Tankleff is the murder indictment. He returns to court on June 16, at which time he hopes prosecutors will finally dismiss the case against him. Even if they don’t, he says he is confident he will win in a new trial.

Ultimately, Tankleff said, he hopes to be able to focus on bringing to justice the people he says really killed his parents. He also wants the police and prosecutors who he said wronged him to be held accountable.

“We know who killed my parents. And hopefully somebody in law enforcement will actually follow the leads that we’ve given them,” said Tankleff, who maintains he still misses his parents “every day.”

Tankleff has no kind words for another member of his family — his half-sister, Shari Mistretta, who has said she believes Tankleff is guilty of the murders, and who collected her half-brother’s seven-figure inheritance upon his conviction. She later used her money to help her then-husband open a restaurant with K. James McCready, the lead detective in Tankleff’s case. “And nobody thinks she was wrong?”

“Where was she? She wasn’t there,” Tankleff said, referring to his 2004-2005 hearings for a new trial. “If she was truly interested in hearing the truth, she would have done like every other family member and made an effort to go to court.”

He would like to get a law degree and looks forward to getting married and starting a family. Despite lingering bitterness, Tankleff said his ordeal has made him a better person and a better advocate.

“I don’t think it will ever be completely behind me. I think it will always be some part of my life,” Tankleff said. “You ask people, ‘Why did you become a lawyer?’ Well, I think I’ll have a good answer as to why I became a lawyer.”

Staff writer Zachary R. Dowdy contributed to this report.

Posted by: Tara | April 22, 2008

These are the best kind of trips!

Girlfriends getaways a booming trend in travel

THE ASSOCIATED PRESS

2:24 PM EDT, April 22, 2008

Girlfriends’ getaways - where women travel with other women and leave the menfolk home - are booming. And the phenomenon is not just about bachelerotte parties or 20-somethings on spring break.

Women are taking knitting trips, adventure trips and spa trips. The Fine Living Network is launching a series on April 24 called “All-Girl Getaways,” hosted by Stephanie Oswald, editor-in-chief of travelgirl magazine. And Marybeth Bond, the author of “50 Best Girlfriends Getaways in North America,” has just written a sequel - “50 Best Girlfriends Getaways Worldwide.”

Bond, who has been tracking data since 1993, said there has been a 230 percent increase in the number of women-only travel companies in the past seven years. And many women who are taking girlfriends’ getaways are married - but leaving their husbands at home.

Oswald said some women feel guilty about taking a vacation without their mates. But Bond said men often encourage their significant others to travel with other women to enjoy activities that husbands and boyfriends may not be interested in - whether it’s shopping, cooking classes or visiting a botanical garden or museum.

April Merenda, co-founder of Gutsy Women Travel, sees more time-pressed career women in their 30s and 40s taking girlfriends’ getaways. But not everybody goes with friends; about 60 percent of her business is from women booking a solo trip. She said that her business is up 25 percent from last year.

There is also more multigenerational travel — Baby Boomers traveling with their daughters or even their mothers. Marcia Walker, 57, of Taylorsville, S.C., went on a 10-day tour to China earlier this year with her daughter and noticed other groups where women were shopping while their spouses waiting outside for them to finish.

“You don’t have that burden,” she said, adding that her ex-husband never wanted to travel unless he could drive there. “I didn’t have anybody breathing down my neck.”

The phenomenon of girlfriends’ getaways and women traveling alone represents a cultural shift. Thirty years ago, women didn’t vacation without their families, said Susan Eckert, founder and president of AdventureWomen, a travel company for women ages 30 and over. A woman who did travel without her husband was asked whether there was something wrong in the marriage, she said.

Traditionally, women planned family vacations where they were the ones “making sure everyone is happy, everyone is safe, everyone is entertained,” said Oswald.

Meanwhile, men went camping, fishing or golfing with the guys, and teenagers started traveling too, with school and youth groups - while their parents footed the bill.

Now women are saying, “‘It’s my turn,”‘ said Bond. Because so many women work these days, they can afford to travel. At the same time, they’ve moved away from childhood friends and college roommates and they see travel as a way to reconnect. Going away with other women is an opportunity for them to really “recharge their batteries,” said Oswald.

“They have never been more independent than they are now,” said Allison O’Sullivan, managing director of The Women’s Travel Club, which offers 60 destinations. The club’s founder was a married woman who wanted to travel to other parts of the world that her husband wasn’t interested in.

The travel industry has responded to the demand. Abercrombie & Kent announced last week new women’s only trips to places like India, China, the Bordeaux region of France, and Argentina. Fairmont Hotels & Resorts, along with several other hotel chains, are catering to women with amenities and special vacation packages.

“The industry has rolled out the red carpet,” said Oswald. “Everyone is coming up with girlfriend getaway programs. I think that’s a great sign that this is a phenomenon and not a trend. It’s here to stay.”

Here are some of the types of trips women are taking.

SPECIAL INTEREST: Some women’s travel companies offer niche trips focusing on wine-tasting, running or even knitting. Sally Black, founder of StitchAwayTours, has been organizing knitting trips for several years to places like Scotland and London. Knitters visit sheep farms, yarn shops and yarn factories. “Knitting has such a great history to it,” said Black. “There’s so many different techniques that come to us from all over the world.”

LEARNING TRIPS: All of Gutsy Women Travel’s trips include something instructional, said Merenda, such as learning to prepare authentic Moroccan cuisine, creating an individual fragrance in Provence or painting handicrafts with local artisans in Costa Rica.

PAMPERING: One of the most popular types of travel among women is a pampering escape, said Oswald, whether it’s a spa resort or a cruise. “Spas certainly provide that amazing atmosphere that lends itself to girls being able to share stories, spend time together and get pampered along the way,” she said.

ADVENTURE: The average age of women on trips with AdventureWomen, which has been in business for 27 years, is between 50 and 55. “We scuba dive, we snorkel,” said Eckert. “We do a horseback trip in Yellowstone. We’re bringing back our cattle ranch trip.” Softer adventure excursions include sightseeing tours to places like India, China and Greece.

BIG CITIES: Big cities, such as New York, Las Vegas, Boston and San Francisco, are popular girlfriends’ getaway destinations, said Oswald. The cities are accessible and there’s lots to do — shopping, museums, nightlife.

ECO-TRAVEL: Go Eco Traveler offers “green” trips to destinations like Aspen, Colo., and Montauk. The itineraries avoid mega-hotel chains, opting instead for historic inns, solar-paneled farmhouses and smaller, independent hotels. They include activities like yoga, hiking, surfing and cross-country skiing; trip participants carry non-disposable water bottles and buy food from farmers.

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